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If the '20's were known as "Roaring," the '60's were about "Flower
Power," and the '80's were the "Me Generation," then the 2000's will go
down as the "Age of Anxiety." Even the June 10, 2002 cover of TIME
Magazine is entitled: "Understanding Anxiety: Now more than ever, we are
worrying ourselves sick!"
It's true! About a third of my practice deals with what I am required
by Texas State Law to refer to as "habitual worry." (The term "anxiety" is reserved for the medical profession... or preachers or lawyers!?)
The TIME article goes on to state: (1) We live in a particularly
anxious age. (2) Eight months after the 9/11 crisis nearly two-thirds of
Americans still think about the attack several times per week. (3)
Nineteen million Americans are affected by anxiety disorders, but less than
25 percent ever seek treatment.
My own theory about why so few seek help stems from the comments I hear
from those who do show up, like "Oh, thank God! (when I tell them they
are not alone) "I thought I was going crazy!"
Why are we as a nation so scared? And what can we do about it?
First things, first. I believe a number of factors play into the
"excessive worry" epidemic. We are literally overloaded, bombarded, with
information daily. This "information crush" has the effect of short
circuiting our own electrical systems.
Then, too, people in general have less quiet time and very few
understand how to get it. Solitude acts as a safety valve to let off "excess
information" steam. Exercise, especially meditative types like Yoga,
Tai Chi, and Pilates, and solitary pursuits like walking or running
alone, can serve the same purpose.
Processed foods-- really little more than conglomerations of chemicals
with refined sugar added-- also overload the central nervous system.
(Review research at www.radiantrecovery.com) And, any toxins, including
food additives, overload the liver and make it work harder to keep the
body functioning properly.
More heavy demands are made on the body by stress, which overload the
adrenal glands. Eventually the body just wears out and the coping
mechanisms break down, sometimes completely.
The body processes "fear" in a two-phase approach. When fearful
stimuli are perceived, one circuit goes through the amygdala, otherwise known
as "fear central." The amygdala is the tiny almond shaped portion of
the brain that doesn't take time to discriminate or reason things out.
It just sends out messages to the "fight-or-flight" mechanism that say
"Hey, get us out of here!!"
And the body responds blindly. Digestion and reasoning are shut down
as blood is moved away from the brain and stomach and toward the arms
and legs so we can "run like crazy" or stand up and fight. A second,
slower route is through the cerebral cortex. This portion of the brain
takes time to analyze the situation and come up with a game plan. If it
decides, for example, that the "ghost" was only some sheets "Grandma"
hung outside to dry that are now flapping in the breeze, it will send a
message to the amygdala to "stand down."
The only problem with the system is that the Fear switch is much easier
to turn on than it is to turn off. In fact, what scientists are
beginning to learn is that some people have switches that are stuck in the
"on" position (namely chronic sufferers from anxiety disorders, like
panic attacks, generalized anxiety, phobias, and obsessive-compulsive
disorder to name a few.)
So what can you do if you're one of those people who suffer from
"excessive fear and worry?"
First, if you're reading this magazine, you're probably not interested
in a pharmaceutical approach. At best, anti-anxiety medications can
help you temporarily while you rebuild your adrenals and the rest of your
coping mechanism. If you do decide to try pharmaceuticals, be sure to
ask your physician lots of questions, and I recommend reading the drug
section of The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook, by Edmund J. Bourne, Ph.D.
Many of these drugs have serious side effects and some are highly
addictive.
From what I've seen, what works best for each person is highly
individualized. So, I usually suggest a multiple-prong approach: (1)
Essential oils like lavender can have fairly instantaneous calming effects. A
few drops in the bath or a foot soak or dabbed behind the ears work
wonders.
(2) Borrowing from the Behaviorists, one of the best treatments
"fearful" people can give themselves is usually the hardest for them to
follow. To reduce anxiety and worry, remove as much disturbing stimuli as
you can from the environment. Change jobs or take a vacation. Cut back
on the amount of activities you try to cram into a week and get more
sleep. Delegate. Ask for help. (3) Spend more time exercising.
Exercise produces endorphins, nature's antidepressants. (4)
Breathe--deeply. Oxygen is the #1 ingredient your body needs to survive and thrive.
(5) Try the cognitive approach. Practice becoming aware of negative
self talk and transforming it to positives. According to Dr. Bourne,
worriers tend to imagine the worst possible scenarios all the time.
One of the best ways to change negative self talk is at the
subconscious level. My primary tool is hypnosis. After all, all habits,
including the habit of being afraid, are stored in the subconscious mind. The
particular hypnotic techniques I use in working with "excessive
worriers" include: releasing root causes; parts therapy (negotiating with the
fearful part and getting it to agree to relax); desensitization to the
fear producing stimuli; anchoring a "safe feeling" button; providing
post hypnotic suggestions that work automatically to keep the person
calm; and translogic, which helps move the anxious thinking from the
emotional right-brain to the logical left brain. Once the person can begin
to see the problem logically, they can begin to take the actions to heal
themselves.
There are many wonderful web sites devoted to "stress management" on
the Internet. Check out my web site, www.mooreinspire.com to get links
to a few of the best.
Kathy Moore is the owner of Moore Inspirations, a motivational
consulting and hypnosis company. She seeks clients privately in individual
or small group settings, teaches self hypnosis and hypnosis for weight
loss through community education at NISD, gives inspirational talks to
business groups and conducts wellness retreats with her associates in
the holistic community. She also enjoys performing Stage Hypnosis for high school and university students and business groups. She can be reached at (210) 735-6766 or
hypnotist@mooreinspire.com.
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